Friday, 31 October 2014 07:47

Slowly, Slowly

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One may walk over the highest mountain one step at a time.
John Wanamaker

Two years ago my health took a knock when I inadvertently added a product with soya to my diet. My thyroid function plummeted and I felt absolutely awful. I had zero energy, muscle pain and was constantly light-headed and lethargic. It's taken two years but today I am in a completely different place. Blood tests show a massive improvement in my thyroid function, and I feel happier, more energetic, thinner (hooray!) and fitter than I've been in years.

So how did this transformation come about? When things were at their worst, I knew I needed to make some changes. Unfortunately, it was a catch 22. I needed to improve my diet, change Homoeopath and start exercising but at the time, I didn't have the physical or emotional energy to do any of it. It seemed insurmountable so here is what I did. I chose one thing to start with and just did that.

As a Life Coach, the trickiest clients to work with, are people with many ideas and lots of goals they want to achieve. Thinking and deciding are a crucial part of goal setting, however, if we think too much, we get scattered or start thinking in circles and end up doing absolutely nothing. The more complex the situation the easier it is to get stuck in this dynamic.

At times like this, focus is everything. We have to ruthlessly prune branch ideas to access the root issue so we can address that. This is not always easy to do, but here's a tip, even if the best choice isn't clear, make a decision. Chose one option to focus on, and commit to changing that.

Start by taking small, consistent actions in the direction you want to go. No matter what area of your life needs some attention, if you spend just 15 minutes a day on it, you will see an improvement over time. I started off dragging myself through 10 minutes of exercise every day. As I felt better it gradually became 15, then 30 minutes and now, it's up to an hour a day. It wasn't quick and it wasn't easy. There were many days I had to force myself into doing it, but no matter how awful the task, it seems possible if you only have to spend 10 or 15 minutes doing it.

So choose that one thing and let me know what it is, I’d love to hear from you.

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I'm a Personal Development Life Coach who specialises in L.I.F.E (Living Into your Fullest Expression). Based in Richards Bay, on the East Coast of South Africa, I live with my long-suffering husband, (his description!), two much-loved dogs and care for my elderly father who has Alzheimer's.

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# suchi 2016-09-30 03:38
you are right..small and consistent steps in the direction you want won't overwhelm us!
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-30 06:53
Definitely works for most people!
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# Ana 2016-09-28 03:25
My mom has a thyroid since past few years and she is on medication. But she really does her yoga every morning and takes care of her health! I totally believe with you that one small initiative can really do a big miracle!
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-30 06:52
There is a lot you can do and it is great to hear your mom is doing it. Thanks for letting us know.
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# Laura H 2016-09-27 01:47
Small consistent actions are definitely the way forward! Breaking a task down into smaller parts can help you stay motivated too.
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-27 05:00
I love the sense of achievement and the more you succeed the more confidence and trust you build in yourself, it really is a win/win.
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# Eloise 2016-09-26 22:18
what a great career to help others tackle life challenges, Live Coach! great tips, take around 15 minutes a day to improve yourself... :)
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-27 04:59
Perfect for anyone with ADHD tendencies, but works for almost everyone!
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# Jessica 2016-09-26 18:42
Not to rush is the key. Things will come at the right time with the support of dedication.
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-26 19:19
100% agree, Jessica!
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# Elizabeth O. 2016-09-25 17:24
It all begins with one step towards a goal that you want to achieve and it doesn't have to improve as soon as you start it, a gradual progress is still progress and sometimes that's even better because you learn more things along the way.
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-26 08:03
It really is about that first step. I think it is called the law of inertia, that says it is much harder to get going than it is to change direction once you are moving.
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# Carrie 2016-09-24 12:43
Small steps are the way to achieve anything whether it be health related, goal related or anything else. The turtle was the one after all that won the race.
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-24 13:50
My thoughts exactly!
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# Tiina A 2016-09-23 19:48
Tania, I would be your tricky client :D always plenty of ideas and starting so many projects. Even though I know the best way would be step by step and concentrating on one thing at a time.
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-24 06:55
Lol, Tiina! It is amazing how 'knowing better' and 'doing better' are poles apart. But yes, I do have to crack my whip with some clients. They are the one who confess they were up late the night before doing their homework and actions. I am quite smug when I tell them I don't mind when, it was done, I just want it done!
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# Brian 2016-09-23 19:44
After reading this I think I need to get my thyroid checked. It's been a few years at least and I feel tired way too early.
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-24 06:50
It worth getting it checked but be sure to get the thyroid antibodies checked at the same time. Thyroid function can remain on the mid to low end of normal long after the auto-immune system is flaring and destroying thyroid function.
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# Tanya 2016-09-23 16:42
True- small steps toward massive success- a motto I live by.. slowly slowly :) Thx for sharing
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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-23 18:44
Lol, true although every now and then a small leap can shake thing up rather nicely!
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# Ivana 2016-09-23 15:58
I always enjoy reading your story and learning from your experince xoxo

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# - Soul Sense Coaching 2016-09-23 18:44
Thanks Ivana, the feedback is much appreciated!
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